I'm surprised he wanted to go on a 3 day trip with them after everything else they've done to him. If my fianc dumps my to escape my fam I would hate myself for the rest of my days. NTA. The man loves you but hes at risk of death and financial hardship being associated with you as long as your family is involved. Now I'm not saying violence is the answer, but I wonder how they'd react if Tim resorted to violence. NTA, but your family clearly is. Im on the road at 3:30am in NYC so mass transit isnt safe at that time. I had my first asthma attack when I was 5, and I don't know when this whole "test" thing starts in your family, but it has the potential to kill your future kids. I think you all let it go to far before you stood up for him. What about your future child if you have a boy? NTA. Um, hey. Not if OP also makes fake invites to the wrong venue. Nothing worse than telling a funny story and everyone goes quiet and looks sad at you. For me, the slashed tires would be the moment where I call the police. Cant you do the same for him? I agree with other posters here, they are bullies, not pranksters. I'd recommend you completely cutoff your fam members, including the enablers that are ok to turn a blind eye because it's not something that impacts them directly. Slashing his tyres? I hope that they see the error of their ways and apologized to Tim but until then, I guess you might have to go no contact. Im sorry but these people suck. How manly would their intake photos look. I know I'd be done after the tire slashing incident. Slashing tires? But yeah of course the real assholes are her family. Frankly, who cares if they respect Tim, the question is, does Tim respect them. The blaming is another form of abuse (like aftershocks from an earthquake). Who wants to be with someone who doesn't support them or back them up? OP is the poster child for NTA. My family thinks I am the asshole because of how harshly I spoke to him, that i chose stepdad over him and that I broke his heart. Your male family members sound like toxic sexist AH, who love bullying under the pretense of how manly they are. Clearly youre not and your family are acting deranged. My parents had been together since they were 14 years old. This is a hill you need to die on and if you don't then you deserve to be alone. I'd cut out my whole family if they pulled shit like that. I can play your game, AND pay for damages. Even if I had to eat ramen for 6 months to pay for it. Who works with you to resolve problems? Pranks dont hurt people or destroy things. The first rule of practical jokes is that they should never have a victim. So, yeah - man up and die for real. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. Yeah, NTA. I actually gasped when I read that. It's also why women who get married have a lower life expectancy. It's helped me to learn how many families with addicts change to fit the addiction. NTA. NTA and I would've called the cops for the slashed tires. Like Im sorry, who are you? That wasn't just a harmless prank, they were literally endangering the life of your fiance. You would also be the asshole if you stay in contact with them and therefore subject Tim to further contact with them as well. If you dont prioritize him now you will 100% lose him and have only yourself to blame. She let them slash his tires? But OP is NTA. I would completely remove my fianc from any further contact with my family if I were her. They didn't even stick around so if he had an attack, what would he do? Never invite them back. How exactly is he supposed to fix slashed tires himself other than buying new ones and replacing them. But they were also educated, kind, accepting, loyal. Ummm he could have died, brain issues due to no oxygen I'm not a Dr. What if you had to get somewhere fast or had to get to work? Whenever I get a new job site I make it clear I love pranks. Also don't call him Timmy. Best of luck!! They will always treat your fiance like shit and like he is less than. slashing tires is not a prank, it's a crime, hiding someone's medical device/medication (especially if prescribed) is also a crime, not a prank, Pranks mean no one gets hurt, this isnt pranking this is straight up bullying. Knowing all of this, I have no idea why he would've gone on a 3 day trip with your family WITHOUT you unless he felt like he had to. NTA. Theyre just acting sorry because youre making a stink about it. What your family have done is abuse, and could have easily led to harm to your fianc. They likely thought my claims of abuse were unfounded at best and malicious at worst. Right? NTA but you allowed this to go on way too long. Lord knows what they will pull on any kids you have. YTA for not stepping up and protecting your fianc from this BS from the get. He has had some health complications straight after and I feel like they blame me for this as well. They dont seem to have any!! Id agree theres a clear pattern of disrespect and scary antics here that I wouldve cut off long ago. Destroying his property to make a point? Create this boundary now. NTA they gone far beyond pranks are just bullying him now. "Family" doesn't mean anything. You're family doesn't know the definition of "prank". After I graduated my mom and I repaired our relationship and now are best friends. Timmy didn't drive the wedge between you and your family. "I asked my fiance if I made the wrong decision and je said it's my wedding and I get to decide eventually but I knew he said that because he's biased. They slashes his tires and you did what? NTA. NTA but considering the shit theyve put him through even before the inhaler prank, Im surprised it took you this long to put your foot down. Timmy isn't the one driving the wedge. When are they going to stop bullying and tormenting? Sounds like he's put up with so much already for your sake. Again, keep in mind him and I have never once hung out one on one just strictly in social settings. These aren't pranks, these are attacks. NTA. Your family are living in another century and you're NTA. Especially if they dont believe his asthma and hid his inhaler till it was too late?? Your male relations are bullies. Thats just too much and a huge wtf. Plus wives will send your ass to the doctor. If your mom doesnt see your side dont invite her either. I'm impressed Tim kept trying with these jerks. Yep, that guy sure loves OP for putting up with her AH family. I would keep my future kids the fuck away from those toxic assholes. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. Send them all links for information about consequences of their behaviour regarding his inhaler. Tbh the fact that they did this shows me what kind of character THEY are and honestly, i would have kicked them out aswell. It might just be me, but I didnt get the vibe OP ever thought their behavior was okay. Probably should have been too. It all feels sketchy but truly crossed the line when they put his health at risk. And they could have killed your fiance with this! This post made me so mad. Tow it to a tire shop. Youre NTA but you will be if you force your future husband to be around them. Otherwise he should cut all contact with them. They really need to understand that their action could have had serious consequence (luckily it didn't). Would they be saying that to Tim's family if he had died of a fatal asthma attack because he didn't have access to his inhaler? Tbf I think she didn't know until it happened .. the men side of OP's family seem very toxic and misogynistic as well.. they probably won't include a "woman" in their plans Yeah. (Think judgmental) So I did my darndest to keep him away from them. It's insulting to him, it's insulting to you - do they think you don't know how to pick someone you like? "NTA. 8.6K views, 64 likes, 0 loves, 68 comments, 3 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Reddit Addiction: AITA for uninviting my stepdad from my wedding so my. I cant believe that Tims family would want to see them or your mom at the wedding. Tires are expensive where Im from, so that would be an expensive prank for the victim. Even if its treatable? OP, this already is a wedge. Like if NTA was like the golden buzzer in Got Talent, OP would still be NTA. If you dont do something, youre going to lose him. Not everyone here is a native English speaker, so it's a bit unfair to expect everyone to be able to infer tone from a block of text, Yea I got it but tbf it sounds like the OPs family think this was unironically so on posts like these I do think it's more needed than not. I really hope you make them pay for the tires they slashed. The notion that someone should be concerned about how much of a man your fiance is is just outrageous, and you should've tried to put an end to it at their first "prank". I wouldve made them pay me the full cost of buying a new inhaler to replace the old one. I know plenty of men that cant hunt, fish or turn a wrench and you know what? We had a friend die from cancer, because he never went to the doctor for his yearly blood work and checkup. Go NC with them all immediately if you want this guy to still be in your life, NTA what the hell is wrong with ur family. I love this! It has been great having her back and we've gotten so close again. She lives alone with her cats and it would be days before we found out. My parents pride themselves on being do-it-yourself. My dad's siblings and their wives (and children) are kind of horrible. He could have called the police on them for that. tell your bf to call the cops and get them arrested for the tire slashing. NTA. OP mentioned demanding they stop. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be ta because I'm depriving my male relatives of a chance to attend a once in a life event even though they said they were sorry. Just not worth the hassle for someone who won't even bother standing up for you until your life is in danger. Pranks are supposed to be fun for both side and I don't think it was the case here nor before. NTA your family aren't trying to bond with your fiance. How do they not realize that?! Your family is driving the wedge. All they are doing is trying to determine if your fianc holds values like them or not. Id have slashed every fucking one of their tires. NTA, and im sorry, also FUCK YOUR DAD, as your post says " he was abusive in everyway, but a master manipulater.". Cut them all out. Not that I'd hold out much hope for that. a prank would be like. filling his car with balloons or something. This isn't much different from slipping someone a food you KNOW they're allergic to. An inhaler is necessary medical equipment your fiance needs, not an accessory because he's "soft". Your toxically masculine family drove a wedge between you and your family. They are too manly to go to the wedding. Welcome to the end times. Risking death because your family is shit just isnt worth it in the long run. First have the conversation with your fianc if he even wants them there. I'm sure that if you let them back in, they're going to haze your fiance more. Taking someone's enhaler can kill them. Imagine what kind of "prank" they would pull at a wedding with a large audience. Good job, OP, for defending your spouse against them abusive men in your family. That should NEVER be something to joke about! OP may or may not have been explicit about why, but she is changing the way she treats their father. Far from it. Slashing his tyres? NTA that's not pranks, that's bullying. I'd go no contact over this. her mother very clearly is an enabler. I hope you and your soon to be husband have a wonderful life together OP! OP this is a hill worth dying on. Demands were never gonna do shit, actions were. They are all stupid creeps. That's a girl color! Send them this article. Not sure if you are being sarcastic or one of the people who refuse to believe asthma is real, As a person who has it, I can confirm that it is easier to run out of energy compared to others and it is very important to keep an inhaler on you in case something happens and it does really help a lot , Inhaler have saved peoples lives many times. Her brothers don't care enough to be in her wedding if they are in the same room as another person they don't like. I agree. Yeah, I would never ever trust my kids for a single second with a grandparent who verbally harassed me, slashed my tires, and tried to steal medical equipment that kept me from suffocating to death. Withholding an inhaler? Those would be considered crimes if the police were called. And even then, if someone gets seriously freaked out (as opposed to just startled), you apologize and never do it again. Who would want to marry into a family where you're constantly tested based on toxicly masculine standards. On their side it's just righteous indignation. I'd hoped that was a ridiculous enough statement given the context to not need a /s but I guess it's not that far out of line from what these fuckbuckets actually think. What they did could have KILLED your fianc. I f22 grew up in a family where men prank and tease each others. Personally I would go no contact with dad and let him lay in the bed he made. If someone slashed my tires they are paying or i am calling the police.the men in your family are immature bullies. Were your father and uncle also tested ? You have my sword!! But in this case, the victim is the one feeling bad for the familial rift - which is really normal since hes the normal one of the group. What they did is unacceptable. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. i cant imagine she stayed silent after the tire slashing incident, but these guys dont seem like the type of men to give up their antics so easily. A's far as the wedding issue. Shits expensive. Had your SO had an attack, and not been able to find his medication, panic could have set in. Dean and Kevin never had a good relationship because they never wanted my mom and dad to separate in the first place, they resented my stepdad and limitied contact once they moved out. This is what its like to be part of a narcissists world. True. You need to make your choice now, its your family - who will probably run off any other man you bring home unless they're as messed up as your family - or your fiance. I agree. How was that not it for you? The question shouldnt be whether or not theyre invited to your wedding. So very, very not normal. Why has your fianc not filed a police report on these people? Shes just found her breaking point to realizing its not and her soon to be husband was the person who showed her. They put his life at risk, am I getting this right? I had a ton of brothers and a dad who were all involved in fishing, hunting, survival, etc. NTA. Tell him they're for his wife or next of kin. The soft college boy clearly they feel insecure around him or they wouldnt treat him like that! By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. They are bullies. You just gotta stop being so sensitive. Thats not pranking. Cut these assholes off and don't look back. Your former lack of imposing boundaries is concerning and has led to this life threatening situation. Handed his corpse over to you like sorry, he wasnt man enough to survive? Who wins out of this? Woman slammed for uninviting step-dad from wedding so brothers would attend A bride-to-be is being shamed online after confessing she'd uninvited her step-dad from her wedding - which he paid. This goes way beyond a "prank". This. They committed destruction of property at the very least. (unsaid: Sir, if it was in the wrong spot, we wouldn't know that, or we wouldn't have put it there now, would we?). I absolutely hate when doctors don't warn you about a scary possibility like that. Exactly. Thanks for doubling down, Dad. NTA it's not normal. I'd like to see uncle and the other assholes breathe through a straw for a few hours, whith their nose properly plugged. Depending on how bad the asthma is it could be way beyond cruel. Gotta love it how a husband will make it your fault for bugging him to simply fucking TAKE CARE OF HIMSELF. NTA NTA. He was bragging about this? OP and little Timmy should have pranked them back by play acting he had. I have been rude and made my fair share of mistakes. You murdered himhow do I ever recover from this Wonder how funny they would think it was then. And there is no come backPretending he died/nearly died isn't funny.really. but potentially killing him is? Would these men abuse him for being too soft? God I hate people. What if he'd had asthma attack? He ended up not seeing his son and I went to work. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. This has got to be in the rural midwestfucking stupid redneck or white trash shit. These are no pranks, this is bullying. I, on the other hand got to live with my stepdad more since I'm the youngest and we established a somewhat stable relationship. That's some courage, at 22. No no, they do find things wrong with you, to fix it. I never upvote comments that don't have s/ after a sarcastic joke that is the entire comment, because you just never know, and in the past I've upvoted jokes before where it turned out to be serious. Mom Kicking Teen Daughter Out To Make Room for Her 'Hobby' Sparks Outrage,"How unbelievably cruel she is to her own child to prioritize an art room over her daughter," commented one Reddit user. Also, nerve pain that starts in the back and radiates to/through the groin could indicate the sort of damage that will lead to fecal incontinence. Their pranks have been unacceptable - in some cases criminal and in the case of the inhaler, something that could have landed them a manslaughter charge in the worst case scenario. Tell your husband he'll be more stressed if it turns out to be a serious condition. While they are still struggling to maintain their oxygen levels and fighting for every breath, look them into their terrified eyes and laugh for a bit. I'm really scared that your family will accidentally kill someone with this mentality. Back your fiance and be in his corner. I am a woman who grew up in a very masculine family. Read this before contacting the mod team. Imagine if you guys decided to have kids and they acted this way around them too? the stuff in the first paragraph was bullying but hiding his inhaler? YNTA. I usually dont agree with people on this sub when they say to cut people off for the simplest of transgressions, but this is more severe. Standing up for your fiance is the best thing you could have done, and honestly if they don't change their attitude real quick, uninviting them is definitely the best answer. Honestly that was pretty rude of her but unless her actions were specifically malicious I don't think she is the asshole NAH po Stay strong. If you dont, it might literally become the hill your fianc dies on because they might hide his inhaler again. Oh gotcha, that makes much more sense then. You have every right to limit contact now that they have crossed that line. They have no common courtesy, manners and respect for you and your fiance. Because that lifetime of stress kills us. Pranks and teasing are one thing. Youve subjected him to a lot and youve let A LOT slide. NTA, defend your poor innocent fianc, and if any of them dispute the right to go your wedding, point out that since they admit slashing his tires and stealing his inhaler you would be well within your rights to press charges against them for vandalism and harassment. Hes marrying you. But I had an attack, not that long ago, that landed me in the hospital overnight. They dont deserve to be at the wedding. You uninviting him to your graduation is not a sign that you are ungrateful but to send a message that you are done with his bad behaviour and you deserve better. I loved her at first but quickly I realized she wasnt everything I had thought. You know what that shit is? NTA. Who do they think they are? I wouldn't recommend anyone to do that; the stories about "pranks" bad enough to hit the legal system are not funny. And that goes for you mom as well, because she's actually taking up for your dad, WTF?!? I think the best thing you could do for yourself is to go no-contact with your father. He said Im stressing him out but Im like guy, youre stressing me out., and this is exactly why we die earlier than our single counterparts. People die from asthma. NTA. Do you live in some backwoods place? I would go LC/NC with the lot of them. They are cruel and bordering on criminal behavior. Learning good boundaries and keeping them is key. NTA, and kindly remind your dad, brother, uncle and cousin that they got themselves uninvited. His worth js as a humannot reliant on their approval or testing. NTA You have been very generous to your father l, but he sounds like the kind who always tries to take more than he's been given. Also I hope this doesn't take the shine off your wedding OP, and remember that day is about making two people happy, nobody else. NTA all the way. Its bullying. I'm 33 M and I recently went back to college for a BFA. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. He's an American actually fortunate enough to have access to healthcare and is bragging that he doesn't get it, despite obviously needing it? Then block their asses. Support your fianc and ditch your shitty family. Yes. Keep your nice shiny spine and keep standing up for your partner. but the money isnt the problem, im just annoyed with how it all happened. You're lucky Tim is tje guy he is. Tires are expensive to replace, and not everyone gets lucky finding good replacements secondhand. OP How do you not see that these people are psychopaths?! Your family is not doing pranks they are awful bullys and terrorizing him. Hiding medical devices? There's a difference between pranks and harassment. The only excuse is that she has been raised in this toxic environment and does not realise how bad it is. If anyone did this to my husband I would have saw red. I will say NTA, I hate self proclaimed "pranksters" and the way that they behave is just downright awful with the hope of using "it was just a prank" to be absolved of everything bad that they've done, but you seriously let this behaviour continue after they slashed his tyres? Right. Costing someone financially and putting said persons health at risk are not pranks NTA. Now imagine your family pranking your new husband yet again on what should be a day celebrating the two of you. Thats emotional blackmail. Men are also entitled to show emotions and have a caring side. Those guys are assholes. I think those types of people also sometimes have some deep down feelings of envy, too, over getting degrees, but mostly they just hate that colleges help a lot of people to develop critical thinking skills and helps teens to grow up and break out of the small-town or suburb way of existing because they get exposed to lots of different people of different races and views and religions for the first time, and many find out the things thier parents said about those "others" are not true at all. i cant blame OP because she is too young, she cant probably go no contact with them and the fiance would be in worse situations after the wedding. Yeah. They also tested his fishing and hunting skills, overwhelmed him with hypothetical scenarios to test his decision making abilities/mental strength. This is hazing. Hiding an inhaler? Or things kids do not realizing how serious it can be. Would you want to put your child and your mental wellbeing through that? Uninviting her is not the solution to your problem. this type of toxic masculinity is why men die so much more often from accidents and suicide. Your male family members sound like toxic sexist AH, who love bullying under the pretense of how manly they are. They need to fuck all the way off. Because they'll show up to the wedding and proclaim themselves as MeN tHaT aRe Up FoR tHe ChAlLeNgE. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. That's a crazy amount of money. Redditor aitamumuninvited is a 31-year-old man whose mother did not wholly embrace her future daughter-in-law because of something she did. They could of killed him. Someone should teach these men a lesson. The mom is completely off-base. Who supports you and your dreams? not that I fault OP when their family is coming down hard trying to convince OP its just a prank bro. There is also a difference between a prank and stealing a serious medical device, such as an inhaler. I cant stand it when the abuser(s) &/or their enabler(s) try to blame the victim(s) for familial rifts simply because the victim refuses to continue to be abused. She should've shut that crap down long ago, and you can't fault Tim for wondering how their married life would turn out with that family in the background. I'd get the police involved for the slashed tires alone, and talk to a lawyer about the inhaler. My fathers cousin among them, even if taken to hospital. She's not an asshole for being related to shitty people. Congratulations on graduating, OP. Its also not a prank if not everyone is laughing. evetytime anyone reaches out to beg op to re-invite them, I'd send them a new article about someone who died/almost died because of a lack of an inhaler. What your sister did was shitty, she let you down and made you waste 90. NTA, your family is terrible. and her Mom Is a no better. thank you for ur reply! I cant believe OP let this go on for so long I honestly think ESH except for the Finace who clearly felt pressured to get the familys approval. OOP can fucking choke. NTA, this is horrible. not slashing his tires and hiding his inhaler the latter of which could literally have caused a medical emergency. Your family is fked up and ruined any real relationship themselves. Keep the fiance and his family and go NC with yours because YIKES. Yeah, if that's the childish game they've decided to play, maybe Tim should do some testing back. This is not normal behavior. madera county sheriff log 2022 cigna stock price history; hornby r3207. NTA - Hiding someone's inhaler is not a harmless prank! NTA, you should elope and go NC with this family of bullies. How do you fix slashed tires? They are cruel people who have been bullying your fianc, these things are not pranks. This mans gonna die. Get ready to LC to NC. NTA. What they did is beyond bullying and shedding a few crocodile tears shouldn't give them a pass. You should have nipped this in the bud after the first incident. However, she doesn't like her either. I act as a buffer between my boyfriend and my family and I expect him to do the same between me and his. No adult man wants some rando on the internet trying to convince people his name means he's immature or not "man enough". Cut them out of the wedding and your life. Wow your family are a complete messed up bunch of a holes.never heard of anyone doing this to any perspective son in law. They should deal with the consequences. At this point, I'd be uninviting mom too. No, they had to literally endanger his life and/or health before you took this seriously. Throw the whole family away and start over. I'd press charges in the same situation honestly. NTA for disinviting them stand your ground OP. Slashing tires and hiding necessary medical equipment are not 'pranks'- they are being wilfully malicious to your fiancee and attempting to pass it off as pranking so you don't call them out for their less-than-human behavior. You continued to expose your fiance to this bullshit and not call a hard stop to it. Sounds like your cousin might have been going along with the crowd and knows it went too far. Somehow, they dont understand how serious their actions are. Thats criminal. Since I assume none of them are medical professional, how exactly where they planning on testing his asthma? I feel good because after years I have finally set a boundary for myself but I also feel sad because I always imagined my dad being there on my special day. . The wedding is just the first step, OP. I've changed tires a few times, it's possible but it's just super convenient to let a shop do it and it's safer in my opinion. The Homo Sapiens hid all their inhalers as a prank. I was still taking care of my younger brothers. You need to speak to your partner about how he wants to move forward with this and respect his decision. They literally could have killed him. NTA. Even if they apologize, this oversized kids need to understand there are consequences to their action, even if they are jOkEs. I call this sort of thing radioactive stupidity. Interesting how these "pranks" appear to involve illegal activity. Literally willing to risk everything to be with you. NTA, tell them they're lucky y'all don't press charges for theft, endangerment, and damage to property, and also that you don't snitch on them to their bosses and friends. Psychopaths. Yeah, it can range in severity. Cut them off completely and keep them as far away as possible. She cussed me out for prioritizing my hateful and cold hearted brothers over my stepdad and showing him that I'm not worthy of his grace which was really really hurtful for me to hear. 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